[James Dean]

Do what you want man, but if your wife found out..she'd probably be a little upset.

[blonde_warrior_2007]

i think what you are doin is very wrong and its a huge invasion of your wifes privacy

[April]

I think your conclusion is probably correct.... morally reprehensible. If you feel your marriage is in trouble, you need to confront her with your suspicions....

[mizzgrizz01]

This could be painful to her if she finds out you don't trust her. How would you feel if she did it to you. Now, if you had a reason to suspect something then do it..it might put your fears at rest. But be careful that she don't find out. it could hurt..

[icee]

you should give her,her privacy and trust that she is not cheating.

[mighty_mom]

as a wife, and mother... stay at home mom, i dont think you should have to snoop.. unless YOU are feeling guilty about something. if you want to know what shes up to, try asking her about her day.

[audrey_dunton]

Ah! What a shame there is no trust in your marriage. I would hate to think someone was spying on me. Stop it immediately. if you have fears then the best thing you can do is talk to your wife. When you married you became "partners" which means you SHARE things, life, happiness, sadness,. go read your marriage vows and read them deeply and try to understand what they are all about. Obviously you didn't listen when they were being read to you by your minister, preacher or whom ever performed the marriage ceremony

[bubbles32]

I'm a female and I did the same to my hubby. I found that he was looking at A LOT of Porn and had this thing for this 16 year old girl he met on the train at work. So to answer your question yeah it's wrong but so what! If there was nothing going on then your subconscious mind would not of let you.

[teresathegreat]

Yes, this is morally reprehensible. You have no reason not to trust her, but you are controlling and possessive and wish to invade her privacy to satisfy your own insecurities. Certainly, you have a right to know if she is cheating on you - but you don't have the right to spy on her, read her diary, open her private mail, or keep tabs on her every action. Think of it as if the police were investigating you - they don't KNOW you did anything wrong, and they have the right to watch you, but they don't have the right to bug your phone or put you in jail until they have some kind of proof.Please seek a therapist immediately, and stop blaming your wife for YOUR emotional insecurities.

[kalea_kane]

Why are you looking for something that you are pretty sure does not exist? I think you have a right to know if your wife is messing around on you, but I also think she has a right to some privacy. If you don't have any reason to suspect her of something, I don't think you should be doing this.You feel you have a right to be informed of things...what things? This sounds very controlling. I think she has a right to know you are spying on her.