[crimsonc]

This is more of a advice thread than a technical one but so be it. You are a child who is trying to get attention. I feel bad for everyone who believes you.

If that is wrong, then you have problems and need to get your head checked. Don't spy on someone you're suppose to love and trust. You can't love someone you don't trust. Now, enough of the heart to hearts!

[poweranni]

That kind of thing will really backfire. If I were your wife, I would leave you on the spot if I found that, especially if I were faithful. I would walk out at that moment, and return with paid movers to get my stuff.

[Dino S]

I wouldn't go looking for trouble. If she hasn't done anything to warrant this, then when she finds out, and she will, you are going to have hell to pay, brother. Don't be so paranoid, lose the software and just talk to your wife.

[reddevilbloodymary]

If you feel like you have to snoop, that's a big sign that your marriage is not where it should be, so that would be the biggest issue you face right now, NOT the moral bit. Either you are a suspicious control freak, or she's giving off signals that are bothering her, or your marriage is in serious need of help.

[sweet granny 06]

you shouldn't be that un trusting quit controlling your wife

[bluemist]

Thanks for the heads up.

[**amelia**]

don't! you should trust your wife. how would you like it if she snooped on you??

[smiley444]

Look, even if you find flirty chatting with strangers 3000 miles away, do not worry about this. We all have done this, it always passes. Now, if she is setting him up to be at the same hotel where you both are going on vacation, then be concerned. If it is just a little online flirting and pic trading, let that pass, it's no big deal.

[cold_cold_cool]

it is called mistsrust. you have to blindly trust your wife, otherwise your relationship might start to fall apart

[Colleen O]

"Be careful what you wish for...you just might get it"