[Gazmondo]

Well, can't think of anything remotely positive from last weekend.

Started with a cold thurs night still got it now.
Vista ****ing up sat morning, so now can only boot into XP.
Went to football match saturday afternoon, got called off.
Some stupid website charged me £280 isntead of £140 so it sent me overdrawn.
Bank then decided to block ALL my accounts so I have no money.
Did 10hour shift at work on sunday only to find out 5 of my closest mates there are now leaving thanks to the boss.
Got a phone call from college stating some overdue fees that the student loan company did not cover.
Went into college on thursday morning (not weekend I know but this is still part of my rant) only to find out there isn't any due to an open day so all the ICT is not in use. Bearing in mind it's almost a 3 hour round trip and I had NO news saying there wouldn't be any college that day.

Finally, and the most depressing, my lass comes round tonight and finds a picture on another lass's bebo in my history, of that lass wearing only a bikini. She is a friend of some 2 or 3 years, who never posts any pictures like this, I was in shock at most and I
clicked on her profile then picture simply out of being a nosey ****. Obviously my missus finds it in my history and goes through the roof, won't talk to me and she said is seriously re-considering our relationship, because I've hurt her so much. I simply don't know what to do or say to her ... this weekend has been by far the shittest weekend in my 18 years of existence and if anyone has any advice on what to do with the missus then it is warmly welcomed...

[alex]

Firstly, I thought things only came in 3's

Regarding the girlie: If your relationship was hunky dory upto this point, and you've explained about the pic and she's still said that then you need to re-evalute if you want to continue the relationship.

I mean if everything was fine, and you've explained and she's still reacted that way do you really want to be with that person? (Maybe she has self-esteem issues, dunno) but it's you she's affecting with them if so.

Can't put too much emphasis on trust.

My 2 pence.

[philthomas]

Sounds like jealousy, possessivenes or worse still a control issue.

Whether she's your girlie, fiance' or wife, one thing to always remember is ...you dont own your partner and they dont own you either. It's healthy to be a little jealous, but if it's taken to extremes, with threats etc. then it isn't healthy and if you give way to it, you will always be on the receiving end of threats, which have nothing to do with your relationship, but have everything to do with her insecurites and her need to control you.

Blimey .... that sounds like Marjorie Proops