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12th Sep 2009, 16:47
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I think im being had and im falling for it and i want to get your opinions ive signed up to match.com and a girl sent me an email and ever since we've been chatting not thru match.com thru web based emails il show you her emails and see what you think (WARNING long messages)
email 1 Hello Rob How are you?Thanks for the email here,well let me say a few things about myself...I have been out of a relationship for 7 months now,I suffered heartbreak from my ex, I didnt know he was sleeping with my best friend and ever since I decided not to go into a relationship.Now I feel I should try to meet that special someone out there who could really be the one for me which is why I am on this site but this time I am trying to be very careful. I want someone that will be sincere to me as I hate being lied to.Okay I like doing alot of things for fun like watching movies,listening to music, spending time with that special someone and more like my workline which gives me an opportunity to do alot of things. Well My Job is to buy and sell artworks mostly Paintings and sculpts.Sometimes I travel just to get suitable artworks to sell,and on rare cases I travel out of the US like right now I am in Nigeria which is in Africa to get local African artworks which should be well marketed in the US.I am looking to meet someone that is sincere,caring,understanding,romantic and fun to be with.I have attached my pictures...I hope you like them.Why don't you tell me more about yourself.... Bye for now Jennifer. email 2 Hello Rob How are you?I am pleased to read your email,I haven't really tried this online dating thing till now...I am kinda bored here in Nigeria when I am not picking artworks from the set out locations... so I came across this online site while browsing and decided to give it a try.Its good to know a little more about you .Well I am willing to answer any questions you have got for me but for now I have some questions for you.what are your likes and dislikes,whats your favorite color and food? Do you like pets? If you do ...do you have any? Also if there is one thing you wish you could change about yourself...what will that be? ok enough questions for one day I should be back in 3 days time and would be nice to meet you up when I get back... Expect your answers to those questions I asked Bye for now Jennifer. email 3 Hello Rob How are you?It always feels good to sign into my mailbox and meet an unread email message from you.Some really Great questions you asked and I love your answers to mine...now let me answer those questions I asked you.....I like traveling,trying out new things,like making people around me happy,I like eating good food,enjoy great sex...etc ...I hate being bored,having a bad day,getting into trouble,being late for an appointment...I dislike things that are generally not right. My favorite color is blue and food is steak...I have a German shepherd dog named bill back home......well the one thing I would love to change about myself is the fact that I am an orphan,I wish my parents were still alive...I am looking to meet someone that is caring,understanding,romantic and fun to be with.I am into drawing and painting so I spend most of spare time doing it and I love to go out also .I am hoping that you could be that one....I am already rounding up things here to be back in 2 days...can you tell me about your family ...also tell me how your job is like for you? Ok have to go now to an art gallery to check out some stuffs. Take care Jennifer P.S..I meant your likes and dislikes in general as a person and in a relationship. Links to her pictures  
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13th Sep 2009, 03:16
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i got another email from her and ive got to say she really goes deep into thought about writting it, i dunno sounds to good to be true, on my last email i said where abouts do you live and how old are you, do you think i should try and get her to say abit more what she does and etc
email 4 Rob dear You seem to be an open hearted man and I looking forward to that day I would see you face to face... But, just so you know, I thought I would tell you what I was looking for, and see what you think... All I am looking for is "True Love," no Games, no Playing around, just want to find my soul mate in life...the one man I Will connect with in every way... I do know very much about you, yet any woman that does not treat you with respect,true love, genuine kindness and caring is absolutely a fool. True Love can be given without being shared, but a shared Love still allows for your special loved one to grow. To me, there is nothing more special than a shared Love. One that delights in our loved one's achievements, and growth as a person. One that has no jealousy, anger or mistrust. I believe when I have met the right person, we will believe so completely in each other, and Love each other so completely, that we will trust without hesitation as well....I am a lovingly touchy person. I am not saying that I am perfect but I always try to do right.I like to hold hands, hug and kiss ... when appropriate... I like open affection, but in good taste, not for affection sake. I love to look into my loved one's eyes, and often get accused of starring... But I stare at flowers too, they never complain that I could look at them from when the blossom until they fade away... I like being touched too. Held and having my hair played with... I like simple things.I want my soul mate to be my best friend, so I can always talk with him about anything and be able to work things out when it matters.Life is so short, why do people make it so complicated by wanting everything they see...and forgetting that we are here to Love one another, not "bed as many as we can" and have nothing true and genuine when our time comes... I believe it takes "a lot of time" to know someone, and when an actual "relationship" does start ... I still believe intimacy should be saved until "you know" they are someone you want to be with. Hope that wasn't too much, but it is honest and all of me.I look forward to reading your thoughts about all I have said... Jennifer P.S...I had removed my profile from match.com.Yes i am 25 and i live in West London. |
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#3
13th Sep 2009, 03:40
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ive just research and put online dating scams and im 100% sure its one, what shall i do i want to get them back, im gonna ask for more pictures about themselfs, what exactly do they do for thier job etc etc
why, how did they pick me this is a piss take |
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#4
13th Sep 2009, 04:49
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Scam. If you want to get them back there are loads of ways depending how big your kahunas are.
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13th Sep 2009, 04:51
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im not stopping no way this is too funny im asking her about her life everything, if she or he thinks got away with it they dealt with the wrong person this time
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#6
14th Sep 2009, 09:47
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just to inform you ive got another email from her and i dont know if it sounds genuine or not, il let you have a read
email 5 Rob dear Thanks for taking time out to reply me,you have been such a sweet person and I am starting to like you alot... its good to know alot more about you ..these things I know will help me relate with you more in the future..I have been rather busy here rounding up things to travel back tomorrow...The good thing is that we could get an opportunity to see when I come back..probably you could just give me your phone number and I will let you know when I get back...I live in HighHolborn. Take care and bye for now Smiles Jennifer. |
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#7
14th Sep 2009, 15:15
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I'm probably being naive here, but where's the scam?
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#8
14th Sep 2009, 15:30
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The mention of Nigeria.
Sooner or later you'll need to send money or something. They brought it up early and brief so later when they give a nigerian address you wont be surprised. |
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#9
16th Sep 2009, 10:52
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email 6
Rob dear Thanks for the email... I am sorry I could not get on to mail you...its because of what happened to me...I was due to come back to UK today but something happened to me and I could not make it again... I got attacked by some robbers here and they took my valuables and my money too. I am so confused and I am weeping now because I was due to pay up my hotel bills and then leave but I cant now because the money I was supposed to use was that which was stolen...I dont want you to feel that I am after money or anything but I am just asking if u could help me in anyway..I know its kind of hard but I need to pay up this hotel bills here so that I can be allowed leave here for UK. Pls in any little way you can just help me and I will really appreciate it...The bills total 1650p but with help from family and some friends I was able to pay 1000p..I feel awful having to ask you for money but really I am in a tight corner and dont know what I should do.........I dont know if you could help me with the rest which is 650p ..ok??? I promise to pay you back on my return to the UK. Even if you dont have up to that..U could just tell me how much you could help with so i can tell you how to get it sent to me.. Thanks and sorry if i am bothering you with this...take care...hope to see you soon so we could talk better about the things we like most and hope that the fact that I asked for help doesnt ruin things between us...bye for now dear.... Jennifer. final nail in the cofin, i arrest my case case closed |
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#10
16th Sep 2009, 11:27
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Lmfaoooooooooo thats the only email she as replaced "you" with "u", send her some monopoly money!
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